I saw this book at my local library and decided to see if I can get a glimpse of Melania Trump’s personality. She always looks like a decorative art piece: beautiful and silent. As a fellow Slav from Eastern Europe, I was curious what she had to say about her upbringing in the communist Yugoslavia. The book is very short and it is badly written, at times sounding like a museum catalogue enumerating all the exquisite designer outfits and elaborate meals; and at times resembling a self appraisal or a college essay, aggrandizing her own accomplishments (my impeccable taste, my work ethic, my poise). Wow. If she wrote this in an attempt to be known, this is a failure. There is no personality that I can detect. I am not sorry I read it though. What you see is what you get: a carefully constructed mask with a huge ego who wants to be in turn a Jacky Kennedy or a princess Diana look alike but of course she is neither. She is also not a deep thinker at all. Jane Austen’s “improvement of the mind by extensive reading” is clearly not about her.
In addition, the descriptions of her childhood in Yugoslavia do not ring true at all. She was born in 1970 - the height of Soviet dominance in the region. Yet she waxes poetically about the picturesque country side and travels all over Europe. Not a single word about the decade long ethnic conflicts in the region - none. Then abruptly in the end she decides to compare the raid on Mar-a-Lago to surveillance under communism, “which her family was very familiar with”. So which one is it? What was her childhood like? Anyway the main sense I got is lack of authenticity and personality. Also curiously, no acknowledgements?